We aim to make our website as accessible as possible. However if you use a screen reader and require debt advice you may find it easier to phone us instead. Our phone number is 0 8 0 0 1 3 8 1 1 1 1. Freephone (including all mobiles).
i England, Wales and Northern Ireland

How bankruptcy affects me

Bankruptcy and loans to family and friends

Many people borrow money from loved ones to pay debts. This money needs to be paid back, just like other debts.

It can complicate your bankruptcy if:


  • You paid back a loan to someone you know in the last two years
  • You gave anything valuable to someone you know in the last five years
  • You sold anything valuable to someone you know in the last five years
  • You agreed to pay back money lent to you after bankruptcy

Bankruptcy may not be the best choice if it impacts someone you know.

Check the restrictions bankruptcy can place on you.

The rules around debt relief orders (DRO) have changed. These changes could benefit those considering an insolvency solution like bankruptcy. Please take a look at the changes, as for some people a DRO will be a cheaper alternative to full bankruptcy.

Considering bankruptcy?

mum pushing son on swing

Worried about bankruptcy?

Free, online debt advice available now.

Get debt help

Bankruptcy rules and loans from family and friends

Take action so your bankruptcy does not impact someone you know.

If you pay money to someone before bankruptcy

The official receiver (OR) is the person who oversees your bankruptcy.

The OR may ask that person to return the money, if:


  • They think it was unfair on your other creditors
  • Paying one debt instead of others is called 'preferential treatment'
  • You knew you were going bankrupt when you paid them
  • You made the payment within the last two years

Court action can be taken if they do not pay the money back.


  • The OR uses this money to cover some of their own costs
  • They share the rest out fairly among the people you owe
  • This is called ‘reversing a preference’

This can apply to any payment made in the six months before your bankruptcy. Even if you do not know the creditor.

The OR may also decide to make your bankruptcy longer.

They do this through a 'bankruptcy restriction undertaking or order'.

If you plan to pay back money after bankruptcy

Loans to people you know get treated like any other loan in bankruptcy. You must stop paying them directly after bankruptcy.

The OR may raise money by:


  • Selling your assets
  • Asking you to make payments for three years after your bankruptcy

The OR pays the people you owe a fair share of this money.

They could take court action if you keep paying a loan to someone you know.

The people you owe cannot take legal action against you after bankruptcy. This includes people you know.

This could cause problems if you cannot pay back a loan.

For a small loan, try asking the person if you can pay them in kind, like by doing odd jobs.

If you give money or assets away before bankruptcy

The OR can ask the person you gave things to to give them back.


  • The asset is then sold
  • The OR uses this money to cover some of their own costs
  • They share the rest out fairly among the people you owe

Examples of assets include:

  • Property
  • Vehicles
  • Other items of value. Such as jewellery
  • Money, shares or other investments

If you sell an asset to someone you know for less than its true value

The OR can ask the person who bought it to pay back the difference.

Let's say:

  • Your car is worth £5000
  • You sell it to friend for £3000
  • The OR could ask them to pay the £2000 difference
  • They could also make your bankruptcy last longer

This is called a ‘transaction at an undervalue’.

The OR can take the person to court if they refuse to:


  • Give the asset back
  • Pay the amount asked for

This can happen with any assets you sell or give away to:

  • Someone you know within the last five years, or
  • A creditor or third party you do not know within two years

These time limits do not apply if the OR can show you tried to hide money.

How will the OR know about my payments or assets?

This is in your 'statement of affairs'.


  • This is a form you fill in when you go bankrupt
  • Find this in sections 3.5 and 3.6 of your forms

It is important to answer the OR's questions truthfully.

They will look at your financial history.


  • This includes all your bank accounts
  • They can also contact any of the people you owe for extra information
  • Be honest about your situation to avoid longer restrictions.

Free bankruptcy advice

Our free debt advice tool can help find the best solution for you.